I’ll never understand some people’s obsession with their past girlfriends. You guys were attracted to each other at one point and it faded. The end. Whether you choose to keep peaceful or friendly communication is based upon your situation.
Now if one chooses to withhold negative emotions, that is their choice alone. Granted if that person did something heinous and inhuman to you, I can somewhat understand the need for revenge and vigilantly justice which is a very rare case these days.
“That bitch/mother fucker should of never left me. That are a rotten person. I can’t believe I was tricked into a relationship with them. They are horrible to the core.” I’ve never wanted to cut their wrists deep and force the blood of life down their throat more than every time I read this.
This is how you are! This is how you act! You blame life for a bad relationship and you think you don’t deserve it. GET! THE FUCK! OVER! YOURSELF!
When I was young, lost, and going through puberty, I remember being heartbroken for five months. I don’t know if I was actually in love or just really grateful a woman with XBOX HUGE boobs gave me the time of day intimately for a few months, Either way, I got over it and realized there was others and I shouldn’t be so shallow. (I was one to talk back then since I wasn’t exactly a good looking person either.)
Lighten up, Francis. Maybe the short bus might take pity on you one day and stop outside your living quarters to ask you if you need company. You could use it.